Using action seems more desirable than lying hold off but why would you wish to work that difficult to get a person?
You he will call you, he will ask you out, and he will take the lead when you meet a man who is interested in dating. Also him a chance at least if you donâ€™t think this man is capable of taking the lead, give. You donâ€™t wish a guy therefore paralyzed by his very own insecurities for a date that he canâ€™t ask you.
You might end up with a guy who just isnâ€™t ready to be in a relationship and the experience will be disappointing at best if you are impatient in your efforts.